Every week, I get questions among the lines of "Why do
I always end up attracting women that I do not like instead of
women that I DO like?"
The answer to this question is simple. It's because you
always do all the WRONG things in front of women you DO like.
When you're with a woman you do not like, you probably
have the "no-care" atittude that is a MUST-HAVE in dating.
This confident, "no-care" attitude makes you VERY attractive
in a woman's eyes. Also, you're probably using some of the
techniques and concepts you've learned from me sub-conciously
because you're completely relaxed and at ease.
However, when you're with an attractive woman...it's
a whole different story. You may be too nervous...which
lowers your confidence and makes you appear more needy. And to
make things worse...you probably lack the self-control you need
to carry out the rigid rules laid out in the Smart Dating
Course.
But don't worry. I DO have some good news for you. If
you always tend to do better with women you don't like than
with women you DO like, it just shows you ARE capable of having
success with women. You just have to work on your self-control...
and actually have the discipline to folllow the rigid Smart
Dating rules.
If you own the Smart Dating Course, I want you to
print out a few copies of the self-checklist. Every time you
come home from a date, go through the checklist and give
yourself a score. See if you've done everything right.
Eventually, you'll be able to do the checklist less often
and still have success with women as you gain more and more
confidence and self-control.
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