I am often asked, "Why do women ask men questions?"
Personally, I think women only ask men questions when
they are INTRIGUED by them. (By tye way, "intrigued" is womenese
for "I'm trying to find out if this guy has potential to be my
boyfriend or not!")
Think about it. If she hated you, would she be asking
you these questions at all? No, of course not! She wouldn't
even be talking to you. She would be trying to AVOID talking
to you instead!
But watch out. Your little interview at the first
meeting or on the first date is really a double-edged sword. It
can work FOR or work AGAINST you. If you give her the "right"
answers, she will come closer and like you more. But if you
give her the "wrong" answers, it will only push her away.
However, contrary to what most guys think, what
makes an answer the "right" or "wrong" answer does NOT
depend on the "answer" itself, but rather the ATTITUDE and
TONE behind the answer. When a woman asks you a question,
she is not just looking for your "answer". She is also
looking at HOW you answer her questions - as in how comfortable
you are in your own skin.
Here are a couple of tips on how to "handle" yourself
when a woman asks you questions:
1) Don't give her a straight answer every time. Play
around.
2) Try to turn the spotlight back onto her and get
HER to talk about HERSELF.
3) Don't give her any negative answers. ALWAYS be
cheerful.
4) Give her truthful answers about your hobbies
and interests, but don't tell her too much about your job,
income, or problems.
5) Flirt with her and tease her a lot.
6) Don't be a pussyfoot. Don't try to "appease" her
with your answers. Be a real man.
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