Why I love resistance from women

I have a secret confession to make.

I love it when a woman shows resistance. The more
resistance she shows...the more excited I am...

Now...before you report me to FBI as a potential
rapist, let me tell you what I mean...

When a hot woman gives me resistance, I welcome it
because it actually helps my game. It shows me what I am doing
WRONG and what I am doing RIGHT.

Here's an exercise:

Imagine yourself as a sailor. A good old sailor in
an old fashioned boat. When the wind turns against you,
what do you do?

Do you try to buck up against the storm and stall
or even sink your ship as a result, or do you ADAPT to
the changing wind and use it to SAIL FORWARD?

Dating is just like sailing. When a woman gives you
resistance, don't see it as "resistance". See it as her way
of HELPING you find out what she DOES want. Take a step
back and think, "What I am doing wrong? What should I try
instead?" As I say in my Smart Dating Course, it's useless
to confront resistance. You will just hit the same wall
over and over again until you're too sore to go on.
Persistence is overrated. You don't want to have "persistence"
in the dating game...because if you keep on doing the same
thing OVER AND OVER, you will just keep getting rejected OVER
AND OVER!

Think about it...if it didn't work the first time...
IT'S NOT GOING TO WORK THIS TIME!

what you should have instead is CREATIVE PERSISTENCE.
If something doesn't work, TRY SOMETHING ELSE. And if she
likes it, then BINGO - You've just scored another brownie!

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