What to do when she is under stress

if you have been dating for awhile, you should know
that there are times when a woman acts stressed or emotional
due to with work, school, family, and other reasons - including
you. Today, I'll show you what to do when your woman is under
a lot of stress.

According to human psychology, there are a few ways that
humans use to deal with problems. Let's look at how they
apply to women:


1) Becoming Overwhelmed By Emotion

The most common reaction to stress and problems for
a woman is to get emotional. This is a time you should give
her a shoulder to cry on to let her know that you are there
for her. Just sit there and listen to her. Don't try to
offer her advice or solutions as tempting as that may sound.
Remember that female and male brains are wired a bit
differently. When guys talk to other people, they are hoping
for a SOLUTION. When women vent to a man, she is not hoping
for advice or solutions, but for emotional support.

2) Pretend To Be Happy

A woman may also pretend that she is happy and that
nothing is wrong. Give her a knowing look and a hug and let
her know that you'll be there for her if she needs you without
saying anything verbally. If she wants to try to be happy,
let her be and don't bust her game.

3) Assume Blame

A woman may also assume all the blame for herself.
If you think it's not her fault for whatever problem or
stress she is thinking, let her know your opinion, and that
she has your full support. But leave it at that. Don't keep
trying to convince her that it's not her fault. Why? Because
if you do, another psychology principle will kick in: She will
start assuming blames on herself even MORE just to get you
to further convince her that she's a good person.

You don't want your girlfriend to fall into an
"I am not worthy" cycle, do you?


4) Isolate Herself

It is very common for guys to isolate themselves
and "think things out" when they are under stress. Women do
the same thing - except they usually only do it when they are
mad at YOU. (And I would argue that they are thinking things
out while they are isolation...they are usually just giving
you the "silence treatment.")

When a woman gives you a silence treatment, access
what you did right or wrong. If you didn't do anything wrong,
then be a bigger b**ch and give her the silent treatment
back, for an even longer period of time. If you DID do
something wrong, however, then an apology is necessary.


5) Fight and Blame Others

A last resort for a woman to cope with stress is to
blame others for her problems. If the problems (such as the
problems at work) are really not her faults, then just let
her vent it out. But if you think she's responsible for her
problems but is unwilling to admit it, then take mental note.
Don't argue with her or tell her that she's the one at fault.
Just take mental note and remember the incident. Why? Because
as a "Smart Dater" you should only date women with good
character, women who always blame others for their own
problems usually do not make good girlfriends or wives in
the long run.

If a woman consistently blames the world for her
problems, it's time to cut her off and find a better girlfriend.

This words may sound harsh...but I am merely looking
out for YOU. Because if you date a irresponsible, psychotic
b****, sooner or later she will start blaming all her problems
on YOU. (I've seen it happen to my clients MANY times...)