I am often asked, "What should I do if my date keepsflirting with other guys when we're out?" Before I answer this question, let's first take a lookat WHY your date may be flirting with other guys:
1) She's Giving You A Test: If you're out on a first date and your date is flirting with other guys, she's givingyou a test to see how strong you are. She wants to judge yourcharacter by seeing how you react in this situation.
2) She Has NO Respect For You: If you've been datingher for a while and she is STILL flirting with other guys infront of you, this is a BIG sign that she does NOT respectyou. So...what DO you do when your girl flirts with otherguys? Punish her bad behavior by flirting with other girls!Find the most attractive girl in the room - someone your girl would consider a threat - and flirt with her. This works MUCH better than confronting the guys sheis flirting with. If you confront the other guys, chances areyou're going to be humiliated or even beaten up. (For example,if the guy is a real jerk, he will probably do something funny that will BOTH humiliate you AND make your date laugh...suchas challenging you verbally and making fun of you with his buddies.) But if you just go ahead and chat up another women, youwill win this war without firing a single shot. Your date willprobably freak out and know you do NOT tolerate her disrespectfulactions. She will probably come running back to you to separateyou from the other girl. And if she doesn't care about you flirting with the newgirl at all, then you shouldn't be dating her anyway.
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