I am often asked, "What should I do if the woman I am
dating does not want to commit to our relationship as much as
I do?"
Honestly, if this is the case, you've got a problem.
Either you're moving too fast, or her character and attraction
are not high enough.
A good relationship requires BOTH parties to be EQUALLY
committed to each other. If one party shows much more eagerness
to commit than the other, then the other person is going to
feel pressured.
Have you ever had a man or woman tell you they feel they're
being suffocated by a relationship? This is precisely what happens
when one party is more interested in the relationship than the
other.
The party with less interest feels suffocated...and this
often lead to a breakup!
So...what do you do if your girl does not want to commit
as much as you do?
Pull back from the relationship a little and see how
she reacts. If she "freaks out" and realizes that she does need
you, then congratulations - you've just given her more motivation
to commit to the relationship.
But if she doesn't care at all...or even worse...she only
seems to care more about the relationship for a SHORT while after
you've played hard to get, then it's a sign that the relationship
is NOT going to work out in the long run.
As you can see, unlike most dating coaches out there,
I actually teach you more than just how to "pickup women" - I
actually show you how you can meet women for the possibility of
finding a GOOD girlfriend (and not just any "slut" either) for
the long-run.
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