This reason most men fail with women

What I am about to tell you may be a little bit
controversial.

In fact, your mind will probably be screaming, "NO!
Don't listen to this!" very soon. (This is normal, as
I will explain to you shortly.)

I am here to tell you that if you're not having the
kind of success you would like to have with women, it's probably
because your mind is ENJOYING the failure.

After almost five years of helping men with their love
lives, I have come to the conclusion that most guys are ADDICITED
to rejections from hot women. Even though they are not
consciously aware of it (they may even argue against it when
they hear my theory), most men are really so addicted to their
feelings from past situations that every time they have a remote
CHANCE of becoming successful with a stunning woman, they
mess up because they don't know how to "handle" the success.

Let me explain this with an analogy.

Imagine your mind as a little elastic band sitting on
your desk, unstretched. Now, let's pretend you're talking to a
truly stunning woman and it just so happens that she is VERY
interested in you. What will happen to your little elastic band
then? It will probably get stretched out to its limits - as
your mind is suddenly forced to expand to accept the incredible
encounter with this woman.

But the trouble with your mind is that just like any
other rubber band, it is going to be fighting and
fighting and fighting to go back to its original shape.
So as you try to make small talk with this hot woman, your mind
will start telling you, "STOP! STOP! STOP! THIS SHOULDN'T
BE HAPPENING! IT'S TOO MUCH FOR YOU TO HANDLE!"

As a result...you start to feel nervous...your palm
starts to sweat...and you begin to mumble stupid things as
you eyes starts looking at the floor...


So why does your mind do this to you all the time?


It's really simple.

You see...just like an elastic band, your mind is
more comfortable in a RESTING position. Believe it or not,
if you have had nothing but failure with women in the past,
then your mind will be COMFORTABLE letting you stay a
failure with women, because then it won't have any nasty
"surprises". To put it in plan English. if you keep on
getting rejected, your mind will at least know what to expect.


Your mind is actually AFRAID of what you're capable
of. Because with personal change, ANYTHING could happen:

- You might bump into a few walls that you haven't
bumped into before. (Your mind would rather see you bump
into the SAME walls over and over...because that way it'd
know what to expect.)

- You might learn to work on yourself. (Your mind
would rather see you stay the same because change is scary.)

- You might let go of some of your old beliefs.
(VERY scary to a mind.)

- You might learn that you ARE in control of your
own life. (EXTREMELY scary to a conservative mind that is
used to blaming external factors for your failures.)

So what should you do?

Here's your solution:

Replace your old elastic band with a longer and
thicker one. Know that you are in control of EVERYTHING
you do.

You choose what you do.

You choose what you wear,what you say, what you believe,
and what you do when you approach a woman.

They are all YOUR choices, get it?

Keep exploring new options. If something hasn't
been working for you all these years, it's not going to
"suddenly" work for you now. You've got to come up with
NEW ways to do things, even if your mind doesn't feel
comfortable with the new changes. If you're feeling
confused, angry, fearful, or depressed with your love
life, it means whatever you're doing isn't working for you
right now. Because if you keep on doing old things
because they make you more comfortable, then you're just
going to keep getting your OLD results.

The bottem line is...if you want to have success
with women, then you'll have to change SOONER OR LATER.
So the ONLY question is: how much more pain do you want
to undergo before you change your life for the better?
How many more times do you want to make the SAME mistakes
with women until you finally start learning how to do
things the RIGHT way?

Here's the exercise of the day. Take out a piece
of paper and a pen. Write down 5 things that you would
like to do differently from now on.

Examples:

1) "I am going to go out every Friday night from
now on...no matter how busy my schedule is."

2) "I am going to try to close for the number every
time I meet a new woman."

3) "I am going to start saying 'no' to women."

4) "I am going to go out instead of watching TV
from now on."

5) "I am going to be more sociable with EVERYBODY
from now on."