I want you to do the following exercise everyday until you're comfortable with approaching strangers... Next time you see a girl, I want you to go up to herand ask for some simple information. Just walk up to a womanand ask her for the time or for direction. Do this 3-5 times a day. The point of this exercise is to get you to becomeCOMFORTABLE with approaching strangers. If you can't evenapproach a woman for time or directions, how are you going to approach a hot woman when you see one at a club? The good thing about this exercise is that since youaren't really trying to pick up the woman, you do not have tofear rejection at all. You'll get to focus on the PROCESS ofapproaching a woman, and you'll get to see how it's actuallypretty EASY to approach a woman once you've gotten the hangof it. In time, you'll be VERY comfortable with approachingwoman and that is when you can do a more advanced form of this exercise and start meeting women. I'll email the advanced exercise to you in a few weeks. But for now, just have fun with this one!
A couple of days ago I assigned you with an exerciseon approaching women. I asked you to approach at least threeto five women a day and ask them for directions. Today I am going to give you a second exercise. This time, I would like you to sit at a location where you can seea lot of women walk by. Have a pen and notepad ready in yourhands. Every time you see a woman walk by, I want to you doa quick body scan and notice something "special" about her.For example, she might be wearing a cute pair of earrings ora shirt with an interesting slogan. Or maybe her heels keepmaking clinking sounds as she walks. It doesn't matter whatthat something is. Just find something that intrigues you and write it down. Then think about what you would say aboutthat "special something" if you were to meet the woman. Write that down too. Do this with at least 50 women. You'll see why later,when I give you your next exercise in 2 days!
So...if you have been following my exercises, by now youshould have approached at least 30 women and "taken notes" for at least 50 more. If you haven't reached these numbers yet,get busy now! Today I'm going to combine exercise 1 and 2 to give youexercise 3. Once you have finished the first two exercises, I wantyou to go to a busy place and ask women for directions. But this time, before you approach her I want you to do a quickbodyscan and generate a quick comment for something intriging about her. (Just like in exercise 2) Then when you approach herfor directions, I want you to thank her when she finishesand give her your comment. Then tell her you "better be going"and leave the scene without looking back. Do this to at least5 women a day. A typical scenario may look something like this: YOU: Excuse me! (Women stops.) YOU: Do you know if there are any pay phones around here? WOMEN: Yes. They are just down the hallway over there. YOU: Thank you. By the way...nice earrings. They are cute! (You leave before she can answer.)
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