NEVER BEEN A LOSER WITH WOMEN

Recently a friend of mine asked me a very interestingquestion. He asked, "Aren't the people on your mailing listlosers?" I stared at him and said, "NO! Of course not!" It is my personal belief that it is very, verydangerous (and wrong) to label ANYBODY as a "loser". A lot of people give up on people that are "not asgood" in a certain area (be it school, sports, or dating) andlabel them as losers. Heck, there are even times when wethink of OURSELVES as losers in a certain area. How many times have you said "I am not good at sports" or "I just suck at Math"? Personally, I think that labeling a person (including yourself) as a loser is really the "easy way out". Just because a person needs a little bit of help or motivation doesn't mean he is going to be a failure for life. I want you to think of pro sports coaches that havecut pro players from their teams, only to see them becomesuper superstars on ANOTHER team. Believe me, this kind ofthings happen ALL THE TIME in many different fields and disciplines: - Michael Jordan got cut from his high school basketball team. - Einstein was sent home from school because his teachers thought he was too stupid to learn. - Marius was a "loser" with women at one point. So here're my gold nuggets of the day: Just because you may have failed in the past doesn'tmean you will fail in the future! You are what you are now because of your past. Thinkabout it. If you had taken the time to get this part of yourlife handled when you were younger, where would you be now?You'd probably be with the girl you want right now! Youwouldn't be single. You wouldn't have broken up with yourex. You wouldn't have made the same "dating mistakes" you have made. In short... If you're not doing too well with your love life right now, it's ONLY because you never took the time and energy to "figure women out" when you were younger! But just because you're not good with women right nowdoesn't mean you're doomed for life. Remember that yourpresent will one day become your PAST, and your FUTURE willone day become your PRESENT. Right now I can see two possible futures waiting for you: If you take action today and REALLY make a commitmentto get this part of your life handled, then a few months fromnow you'll probably be involved in a relationship with thegirl of your dream. But if you continue to sit in front of the computerall day long and don't work on improving your dating skills...I can PROMISE you that six months from now you'll STILL be sitting here without a girlfriend... Listen... YOU control your own future. If there's a little voice inside your head that's shouting, "Yes! I want to be good at dating and meeting women! I want to get this part of my life handled right now," then you should LISTEN TO IT. Go out and practice everything I've taught you sofar. Go print out all my emails and put them in a binderfor reference. Go and do ALL the exercises. Go and flirt with girls already.