If you don't feel confortable approaching women

If you don't feel 100 percent comfortable with
approaching women right now...it's totally okay. Don't let it
stop yourself from doing it. The only thing you have to fear
is fear itself.

A boxing champion has once said that even the greatest
boxer wakes up in fear on the day of a tournament. But the
difference between a champion and a boxer-wannabe is that the
champion gets into the ring IN SPITE OF HIS FEAR.

The loser just quits.

Don't try to "repress" your fears. Be the champion and
fight on! The bottom line is...you're never a loser until you
quit and give up or start blaming other people or things such as
shyness.

Too many guys don't do anything because they're too
afraid to. Or they want to wait until they're "more
confident".

Don't be one of them. Go out NOW and start DOING!

It's like what they say in the marines, "What doesn't
kill you will only make you stronger."

If you learn to look at the BIGGER PICTURE (of yourself
picking up the skills to become a master at dating) and NOT
WORRY about the outcome of an encounter with a particular woman,
then you'll see how every approach and every date is essentially
just another TRAINING SESSION.

Don't let "fear" get into the way. A friend of mine once
told me that he was scared when he went away to bootcamp and got
"chewed out" the first time. But he eventually got out of
bootcamp as a more confident and more confident man - and he had
managed to pick up many skills that would be valuable to him for
the rest of his life.

Speaking of skills, your "fear" won't affect the outcome
of a situation with a woman. In the boxing ring, ultimately it's
the SKILL of the champion boxer that wins him the match. He
WINS in spite of his fear. He analyzes his own mistakes and turns
his weak areas into his strengths. That's what you should be
doing!

Remember: "Confidence" comes from "competency", which
in turn comes from PRACTICE!

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the techniques YOURSELF in the REAL WORLD.

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