Today, I'm going to teach you 10 techniques you can use
to project SUPREME CONFIDENCE while on a first date. (Remember:
If you don't show confidence on a first date, you'll NEVER get a
second date.)
1) Don't Ask, Lead
This one is VERY important. A lot of guys ask stupid
things like "Would you like to go to this restaurant?", "Can I
go to the bathroom", or even worse, "Can we do this again some
other time?"
And they wonder why they never get a second date!
Listen, buddy. Confident men do NOT ask women for
permission to do ANYTHING. They JUST do it. They don't ask for
a kiss. They don't ask for a second date. They don't ask for
ANYTHING.
So next time you go out on a date...please...JUST LEAD
THE WAY. Instead of asking "Can we...", just say "let's..." and
lead her by the arm.
But never, never, NEVER ask a woman ANYTHING. Remember,
boys: If a woman doesn't like something, she will make sure
you know.
2) Never Give a Direct "Yes".
This is a VERY good idea to stay in control while out
on a date. If a woman asks you for something, don't just give
it to her like all the other pussy guys out there. Make her
WORK for it. (Remember, psychology tells us that we appreciate
the things we have to WORK for MUCH more than the "freebies".)
For example...if she asks, "Can we go to Japanese?"
Don't just say "yes." Say..."Maybe...", or be funny and
tease her, "I don't know, only good girls get treated to
Japanese. Are you a nice girl?"
Or if she asks, "Can we sit over there?", instead of
just following her ass like most guys would, grow some
spine and say, "No. I'd rather sit here. It's a much nicer
view here."
The key is to start getting you to act like a MAN.
3) Don't let her "interview" you.
If you want a second date, then you better not let
your woman "interview" you. Women love to interview men on a
first date...so they can weed out all the losers. And guess
what? That means if you screw up on just ONE question...
you're a GONER. G-O-N-E-R. Goner.
And this is EXACTLY why you shouldn't let her interview
you in the first place. Whenever she asks things like "So
what do you do" or "How much do you make?", just give her a
silly answer...like..."Why, are you one of those superficial
women? How much do YOU make?"
Whatever she says, just TURN IT AROUND playfully.
4) Lift up Your Chest, Tuck Your Tummy In
Want to project confidence physically? Do what Sergeant
Marius says in Bootcamp, "Chest up, tummy in, boys."
This will NATURALLY put you in a confident position.
Ever seen a marine walk? That's how I want you
to walk. Chest up, tummy in, soldier!
5) End The Date Early
So the date has been going really well and there's
a LOT of chemistry between you and your new love.
End it now.
I am serious. I want you to ALWAYS end the date early
to keep the power in YOU. Make your date wonder why you have
to go. Make her WANT to go with you again.
Most guys just drag a good date on and on until
it becomes a bad date. Don't be one of them. Be a man and
have the power and self-control to end it early.
6) Don't Let Her Challenge You
If you act like a wussy and back down whenever a woman
challenges you, her attraction for you is going to drop
faster than an apple dropping down from a tree. Most guys make
the mistake of thinking they should never risk "offending"
a woman by showing her their spines.
WRONG.
Never bow down to a woman you like. Don't suck up to
her whenever she challenges you. Because if you do, she's going
to lose respect for you as a potential boyfriend or lover.
So next time a woman challenges you, have some spine
and stand up for yourself.
For example...
If a woman tries to challenge you or to seduce you by
staring into your eyes, stare back. Don't look away until SHE does.
(The moment you look away and blush in shyness, she's going to
lose respect for you as a man and find another man who's
stronger.)
7) Don't Talk About A Second Date
Never talk about a second date while you're still on
the first date. Be a challenge - don't act like a eager beaver.
Remember my golden rule: Take it one date at a time.
8) Don't Tell Her You Like Her
Never, never, NEVER tell a woman you like her. Don't
EVER try to "express your feelings for her". That is worse
than ripping your own spine out and strangling yourself
with it. I am not kidding. Once it's out in the open that you
like her, half the game is over. SHE will have all the power,
not you.
Girls love trying to figure out if a guy likes them or not.
It's part of the dating game. So don't take it away from them!
9) Let Her Think She's Not The Only One
If she asks you if you're seeing anybody else, don't
freak out and say, "No. Just you." Be a MAN and be a CHALLANGE.
Say something like, "Well, I have a couple of possible prospects
right now. We'll see who wins." Then flash her a smile.
10) Be In Control From The Beginning To The End
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