HOW TO HAVE CONTROL OVER UR LUV LIFE

A lot of guys like to email me and say, "Marius...I feel like I do not have enough control over my love life. How can I have more control?" To me, the answer is simple... You've to start being responsible for your ownactions. Here's the magical formula of life: Control = Responsibility. The 2 are inseparable. If you want more power, then you gotta be more responsible. It's as simple as that. At school, if you want to join the student council,you've got to volunteer to do stuff and be active in everything. At work, if you want to get a promotion, then youhave to show your boss you're capable of doing more. In business, the more money you want to make, theharder and smarter you have to work. In politics, the more power you have, the moreresponsibilites you'll have for your country. Dating is no different. If you want to demandmore, then you must first GIVE more. You must firstunderstand that YOU alone is what makes you ATTRACTIVEor UNATTRACTIVE. Every action you make will either make a girllike you more or like you less. It's not your luck,it's not the environment, it's not "the other guy", it's YOU. Nobody but YOU. Listen. If you want to have more control overyour love live, then you better start accepting responsibility for your own problems NOW. For example... 1) If your girlfriend has left you for anotherguy, don't blame the other guy for stealing her. It'sYOUR own fault for losing her. If she was REALLYattracted to you, NOBODY could have stolen her awayfrom you. 2) If women always keep saying you are a "friend", don't whine about it. It's YOUR own faultfor not developing any chemistry with women. 3) If you never go out and meet women, thendon't complain about not having a girlfriend. It'syour own fault for not expanding your social circle. 4) If you can't hold a conversation, don'twhine about your shyness. PRACTICE your conversationskills. 5) If you don't know how to attract women,then LEARN.