I am often asked, "Marius, how can I get out of the
negative zone"?
In case you're not familiar with the "Smart Dating
System", the "negative zone" is a zone you're in after you've
been dumped or rejected by a woman. When you're in the negative
zone, everything you do will just annoy a woman and push her
further away.
So...how do you get out of the negative zone once
you're in it?
The answer is to WAIT.
Only time can get you out of the zone.
why? Because when you're in the negative zone, ALL of
your actions will only "annoy" the woman even more. It doesn't
matter if your intentions are good. No matter what you do, the
woman will STILL shun you because she will think it's another sign
of you showing affection for her.
And if you remember rule #1 of the "Smart Dating System",
it's not how much you like a woman, but how much a woman likes
you that matters.
So what should you be doing while you're waiting to get
out of the negative zone?
Personally, I think you should be moving on psychologically/
You should also be improving yourself.
Don't just stay at home while you're waiting to get out.
Go out and date other women. Practice your flirting skills.
Go to the gym. See your old buddies again. Party, party, party.
Take a couple of classes to improve yourself. And most important
of all, learn and practice your dating skills so that you don't
make the same mistakes next time.
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