How to act on a date

So now that you have successfully gotten a first date
with a woman, what should you do on your first date?

Here are some quick "first-date tips" for you:

1) Flirt, Flirt, Flirt:


Too often I see (or hear about) guys going out on a
first date and then acting all "nice" and quiet.

BORING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Listen. The ONLY thing that makes a romantic
relationship a ROMANTIC relationship different than a
"normal" friendship is the ROMANCE, and romance comes
from SEXUAL CHEMISTRY.

It's a simple formula...

No chemistry = No Romance

Get it?

So remember...drive up the sexual chemistry AS MUCH
AS YOU CAN by flirting with your date and teasing her. This
is VERY important.


2) Stay In Control:

"Nice guys" tend to "lose control" on a date by
sucking up to women and asking for permission for EVERYTHING.
"Examples: "Do you like ______________", "Can I give you a
good night kiss?", "Should we seat over there?", "Would you
like me to _________".)

If you want to make a woman feel you're actually a
MAN (which is what women want, just like a WOMAN - not a
guy - is what WE want), and not "one of her girlfriends",
then you need to start TAKING CONTROL now.

EVERYONE wants LEADERSHIP, and I am not even talking
about dating. This is basic human psychology. Most people on
this earth, including women, would rather BE LED than to be
lead.

So if you want to stand out from other guys,
become a leader and stop asking for permission for everything
you do. If you want to do something, JUST DO IT. If she hates
it, she will let you know. There's no use seeking her approval
for ANYTHING. The more you seek a woman's approval, the LESS
she will respect you, get it?

3) Be A Challenge:

Remain a challenge and tease your date throughout
the evening. Remember the "sexual tension fishing line"?
Keep reeling her in closer and closer without giving too
much slack or breaking the line.

4) Advance Physically:

Don't be too pushy; but don't be too passive either.
When you're dating a woman, you HAVE to keep advancing or
you're out. I don't care how shy you may be. Chances are,
if you don't advance, her excitement and attraction for
you will go away and you will never get another chance
again.

5) Bond With Her: Something that a lot of guys
forget to do is to bond with the women they date
emotionally and intellectually.

Flirting and teasing work A LOT better when you're
ALREADY bonded with a woman intellectually and emotionally.

I discovered this back when I was working as a
"wingman" for my friends and trying to hook them up
with women. As I talked to the women my friends were
interested in and tried to get the information that my
buddies could use to attract them (their dreams, etc),
these women would suddenly all become attracted to ME
instead of to my friends.