How not to lose your girl friend

Here is how to not lose your girlfriend:


1) Don't Think Your Work Is Finished

Just because you have a girlfriend doesn't mean
you will keep her. Here is a pattern that I see all the
time as a dating and relationships coach:

Guy chases girl.

Guy gets girl.

Guy stops doing the things that helped him get the girl.

Guy loses girl.

Are you going to be one of these guys? I hope not!


2) Don't Ignore The Details

If you want to keep a woman, then pay attention
to details. Notice the things she does and give her
special attention. When she is unhappy, read between the
lines instead of just taking her word for it. Because
if you ask her what's wrong, she will just say "Nothing."

It is up to you to read into the details and
see why she is upset. But don't worry, it doesn't
take a genius to understand women. With a little bit of
practice, you will be able to do it too.


3) Don't Stop Being A Challenge


As I say all the time, if you stop being a
challenge in a relationship, romantic respect will
drop and attraction will lower over time.



4) Don't Freak Out Over Her Ex's

A lot of my readers freak out when their
partners talk to their ex's. This is a normal reaction,
but next time it happens, ask yourself this question:

"Is there anything I can do to lower my partner's
possible attraction towards an ex?" The answer is "no" and
you should leave it at that. You can't change how a woman
feels about another man, so just focus on keeping her
attraction towards you high.

If she likes you enough, she won't think about
other guys - unless she has bad character. (In this
case, you don't want to date her anyway!)



5) Don't Criticize Her In Front Of People

Remember my golden rule: always compliment your
girlfriend or wife in public. Don't put her down in front
of other people!


6) Don't Clash With Her Friends And Family

Do your best to avoid clashing with her friends
and family. Put on a smile and be polite no matter how
much you dislike them. After all, you don't want her to
have to choose between you and them, do you?


7) Don't "Just" Be Her Best Friend


Don't just be a woman's best friend. Be her
lover. Keep the stakes and attraction high, and she
won't leave you.


8) Don't Let Her Stop Over Your Boundaries

Don't be a doormat and let women walk all
over you like so many guys do. Define your boundaries
clearly and don't let your partner step over them.

Appeasement cannot keep a woman close to you
in the long run!


9) Don't Try To Solve Her Problems


When a woman is sad, she wants to be comforted,
not lectured to. Keep your solutions for her problems to
yourself for now. Give her a hug and listen to her talk.
Use my happy walk technique to cheer her up if necessary.


10) Don't Stop Being Romantic