Good things to do for your love life why you are single

Last time we talked about the importance of enjoying
your single life before getting into a relationship. Today I'm
going to show you a couple of things that you can do while you're
still single.


1) Hang Out With Friends

Over the years, I've noticed that a big problem
most guys have when they get out of a long-term
relationship is that they have lost contact with all
their old friends.

I've also noticed a direct correlation between
unhappiness and having a lack of good friends, especially
when it comes to the "lone-wolfs".

A "lone-wolf" can focus all his energy on a woman
(or more than one woman if the lone-wolf is a player) in
the short-term. But when his romantic relationship(s) turn
south or he has a period of bad luck with women, he may
suddenly find himself depressed and unwilling to go out
because he has no friends.

I've seen more than a few amazing "players" go from
"pimp" to "depressed" because they lacked "normal" friendships
with other men while they were between women. It's sort of
like a bad cycle. You're very good with women so you don't
see the point of having male friends. But once in awhile
you have a bad streak of luck with women and so you "give up"
for awhile. But while you're "taking a break", you get into
depression mode because you don't have any buddies to hang
out with. Without any friends to motivate you, you slip
into further depression until you lose all your charm
with women.

Many of my readers who are in their late 20's, 30's
or 40's have told me similar problems. Here's the classic
story of how it happens:

1) Guy is young, handsome, and skilled with the
ladies.
2) Guy plays women and gets a lot of sex.
3) Guy meets "the one" and stops playing.
4) Guy loses all his friends due to lack of
contact.
5) Guy breaks up a few months or years later.
6) Guy doesn't know how to get out of the house
anymore because he has lost all his friends and
"skills".
7) Guy gets depressed.


Do not make the same mistake. When things are going
well for you, don't forget the buddies. And when you're
single, spend more time with them to strengthen your
friendships while you still can.


2) Meet New Friends

You should also meet as many NEW friends as possible
while you're single.

Why? Because relationships tend to take you AWAY from
your friends...so if you don't have many friends to start off
with, you may find yourself without any friends in a few years.

Furthermore, becoming more sociable is one of the best
ways to meet women. How many times have you met a stranger through
a friend who just happens to be very attractive?

If you know enough friends, you will never run out of
women to date.


3) Spend Time With Family

Spending time with family is a good way to "recharge"
your energy while you're single.


4) Find New hobbies

Spend some time on a new hobby or two while you're
single. Developing passion for different hobbies or subjects
will definitely make you a more interesting and well-rounded
person.

Plus, chances are you will be able to meet women who
enjoy the same hobbies as you do.


5) Sports and Fitness

Spend an hour or so at the gym everyday. It doesn't
matter if you're not in shape right now. Anyhow can improve
their physique by working out.

And of course...there are lots of hot and young,
beautiful women with very nice bodies at the gym...

You should also consider taking up a competitive
sport or two. It's good for building your masculinity, which
will become useful when you get back into the dating game.


6) Education and Self-Improvement

Take a few college classes and buy a few self-improvement
programs. You can NEVER spend too much time and money on
improving yourself, and you can quote me on that.

I personally spend at least 10 percent of my time and
income on my own education every month, which includes classes,
magazine subscriptions, psychology journals, books, newspapers,
and self-help programs.


7) Improve Your Dating skills

Lastly, you should improve your dating skills while
you're single, as you never know "when" you will bump into
your dream girl.