Common trait every player shares

Over the past few years, I have noticed a COMMON trait
among EVERY man who is successful with women.

Of all the "players" I have met and interviewed, they
are almost always very sociable people.

And I don't mean they are just sociable with women.
They are sociable with EVERYONE they come across. No matter
how "alpha" they are, they are NATURAL LEADERS that are
CHARMISTIC and SOCIABLE. They can strike up a conversation with
you in 10 seconds, no matter you're a hot model or just another
guy sitting at the bar.

So...before you dream of becoming the kind of guy
every woman wants, I want you to take a look in the mirror
and ask yourself the following question:

"How sociable am I?"

1) How often do you meet new friends?

2) How often do you talk to strangers?

3) How often do you raise your opinion at work or
at school?

4) How easy is it for you to carry on a conversation
with a stranger? Not with a hot woman - but with ANY
stranger?

As I always say, your love life is merely a REFLECTION
of your life in general. So if you aren't very sociable with
women, chances are, you're just not very sociable IN GENERAL.

I know these words sound harsh - but as you know, I
always try to show reality in my newsletters, and reality
always hurts.

Here's my suggestion:

Before you pursue your dreams of becoming a player
every woman wants, perhaps you should take a step back and
think about how you can become a more SOCIABLE person in
general. Not just with women, but with EVERYBODY you meet.

Here are some practical tips on how you can become
a sociable person RIGHT NOW:

1) Go out with your friends more often.

2) Invite your friends to do things with you.

3) Hang out with the "groups" at your workplace
or school.

4) Laugh at people's joke and make them feel
comfortable around you.

5) Be naturally interested in other people.

6) Say "thank you" when others compliment you.

7) Don't be "too modest" when people center
turn their attention on you. Thank them (see
rule number 6) and compliment them back.

8) Go out AT LEAST twice with your friends every
week.

Now...go out and make some friends!

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