Can christians flirt

A lot of my Christian Readers have emailed me to ask,
"Marius. What should I do if I am Christian? I am not sure if
flirting is appropriate for me because of my religious
background."


Here's what a Christian reader of mine has suggested
to me in the past. (Not exact quote...I am paraphrasing him...)

"See flirting as a way of giving attention to people.
Think of it as a way to share your warmth. See it as a way to
make other people feel good about themselves, not as a way
to get anything in return."


I agree with this reader. He has got it down TOTALLY.
Flirting is a way of GIVING, not a way of "taking" as most
people wrongly assume. Don't flirt to get into a woman's pants.
Flirt with her to MAKE HER FEEL GOOD about herself. Give her
pleasure by flirting with her and teasing her.

There is NOTHING selfish or immoral about making other
people feel good.