Some of my readers have told me that they like to drink
before or during a date because it builds their confidence.
Personally, I don't think that's such a great idea.
More than a few of my past readers have gotten into
trouble while being drunk. One guy started puking in front of
his date. Another guy got his butt kicked after starting a
fight with another guy at a club.
Sure, these guys all thought they were "feeling"
confident. But in reality, they were acting like idiots.
A recent study shows that it actually takes women
LONGER to get drunk than a guy. So if you have just ONE drink
with a woman on a date, you could be acting like an idiot
while your date is COMPLETELY SOBER AND TURNED OFF BY YOUR
ACTIONS. This explains why some guys think they had a "great
date" and are surprised when their dates don't want to see
them again.
Here's the lesson of the day: Do NOT try to use
alcohol to give yourself more confidence. Don't rely on
booze to give you confidence. Work on your self-image
instead!
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