10 MISTAKES GUYS MAKE DURING AND AFTER BREAKUP

Here's a list of what NOT to do if your girlfriend isbreaking up with you.
1) Do NOT fight with her. Fighting ALWAYS createstension and kills attraction. Fighting with a woman is useless.Even if you win the argument, you will still lose the war.
2) Do NOT try to use logic to show her why she shouldcome back to you. Love is based on FEELINGS, not logic. Nomatter how brilliant your logic is, she's still going to leaveyou.
3) Do NOT reassure your ex that you have "changed" so things will be "different from now on". It's like trying tobail water out of a sinking boat. It won't work. The hole isstill there and your words are not going to mend it.
4) Do NOT keep telling her you love her. She won't care. All a woman cares about is how much SHE loves YOU...notthe other way around!)
5) Do NOT beg her to come back. The more you beg, themore she will ignore you.
6) Do NOT try to make her feel guilty about leaving you.(Examples: "I can't work without you." and "Don't break up with me during exam period...") It won't work. It will only make her DREAD being with you even more.
7) Do not act depressed so they will feel bad for you.Sympathy does NOT equal ATTRACTION!
8) Do NOT talk to her friends to win their support. Allshe cares is how SHE fees about you. Even if her friends love you, they can't make her love you forever. External pressure neverlasts longer. If your girl decides to stay with you, her motivation has to come from WITHIN.
9) Do NOT spend money on gifts and flowers for her. Youcan't buy her heart back with money.
10) Do NOT push her into getting back with you. The moreyou push, the more she will PULL AWAY. These are the most common mistakes guys make during a breakup. Trust me, you don't want to do ANY of these things. If you do, I can guarantee you your relationship will be doomed. You probably won't even get a chance to kiss your girlfriend goodbye, let alone get her back. I deal with dozens of breakup cases every week, so I KNOW what I am talking about!